Richard Apley: Oxfordshire Life Coach for those at a crossroads

 

  • Unhappy in your relationships? Divorcing or separating? 

 

  • Worried about redundancy or a change of job?

 

  • Stressed about moving house? 

 

  • Dissatisfied with your life?

 

  • Anxious that you’re not achieving your potential? 

 

  • Needing help to find clarity and confidence in making a key decision about your life?



Let’s work together to find out why, and what you might do about it.
 

I’m not here to tell you who you are or what to do, but to help you work it out for yourself.

 

We sometimes know we aren’t happy, whether at home or at work; but it can be very difficult to know how we want things to be instead, or how to get there. The more we think about it, the harder it gets.


Through my work both as a solicitor and as a life coach, I have seen first-hand how difficult it can be to make decisions at these turning points in life, not just for those who are lacking in confidence but even for the most sure-footed.


There’s a reason why people say ‘a problem shared is a problem halved’. Thinking, planning, and analysing the pros and cons of significant life decisions is very difficult in isolation. Yet it’s not always possible to share them with those who are close to us. As a life coach, it’s my job to provide a safe, judgement-free space for you to explore your options, and to act as an objective sounding board to guide your decision-making.


What is Life Coaching?

 

Life Coaching is a partnership of equals in which I encourage and help you find your way out of whatever dilemma or difficulty you are in. We work to your agenda, not mine, and my objective is to help you clarify for yourself what the problem really is, what the possible solutions may be, and how to achieve them, rather than my telling you what to do or how to do it. 

 

It is mostly forward-looking: although we will establish the problem, the main focus is on the solutions. 

 

Coaching is usually effective in just a few sessions; it is not a process you have to engage in for months on end.

 

My job is to support you in your efforts, to encourage you to believe that you can find your way, not to criticise or judge you.


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